*shrug* It was one of those things REQUIRED by my family to be there, not just physically but mentally too. I don't know if I'm odd or what, but unless it was my mom/dad/sister a pet/horse's illness would normally trump an extended family illness.
I would be so utterly consumed mentally and physically if Deli (WHEN Deli has) got sick in the same way. Maybe I'd react worse and totally lose my mind, because I think you are probably one of the stronger people I know.